P, I mean that you have been saying that your W is different than the other WSs..that she won't respond to the techniques and that she is gone forever. But now that you realize she is just another WS, then you can have confidence in your NC techniques. ("NC...designed with WSs in mind..." sounds like a good tagline!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004