The books are like your "game plan". You wouldn't show the opposing team your game plan, right? Besides, WAW's do "not" want you to suggest they read anything about MR or to watch a video or listen to a CD. Don't even leave it lying around where she'll see it. Just a word of warning that it will do damage if you try to do it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
