Let the games continue....

while checking my phone acct on line I discovered that w finally removed her cell phone from my account. I called home because I was expecting a package from fed ex.. W answers (I thought she was at work). it was an awkwared hello ... I asked W to make sure one of the kids would be around to accept it. She says ok. very short 1 word answers... I can sense she is still pissed and is angry about just having to speak with me even over the phone...

I ask/remind her about settling the phone account and w replied that she had taken care of it already.. I also reminded her that her car ins expires at midnight tonite...W replies she'll take care of it... W says, here's your D and hands the phone to her.. I speak with D and have a good conversation and hang up.

I go work out in the gym and afterwards see that I missed a call from the W cell phone.... (I expect my pkg arrived)I call back to the W phone and say that I saw I missed her call, W very coldly,smartly replies, "I didn't call, your D did", I said "oh, I assumed it was you because of the number that was displayed".

W coldly says "here, D wants to talk with you", I speak to D again and D is excited because my new I-phone arrived and D knew it was coming and wants to play with it. we talk and I hang up.

IDK, it appears W is trying to play games by saying it wasn't her that called me from her phone it was your D, childish head games.......I calmly reply and am civil...I have been very nice and polite, pleasant, and calm when in her presence,,, I feel a vibe true resentment from W about me being back home,,, Well too, f'n bad..

I am trying to be patient, will interact mainly with the kids and dogs..very cool frosty feel at home,, nothing I didn't expect. Just trying to find my normal in this situation..

I expect/infer from actions W is considering what to do next to try and regain the control she has lost,, I'm not giving in to arguments or respond to her frosty attitude... I'm preparing for a bomb of some sort (in her mind) so W can counter my returning home...a "gotcha moment"... grow up, please!

Last edited by DDogs; 12/31/09 06:43 PM.

DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09