I guess I was just confused looking at things from a female perspective who is now considered a WAW that my husband is also not pursuing, GAL, etc.
UM, yup... you sure are confused girl! Newsflash for you... you're the LBS that was left the marital home. REPEAT: You are NOT the WAW here. Get that into your head.
Your H is a having an affair. As long as those "love chemicals" are in his bloodstream you can forget about him looking in your direction. Do whatever is in your power to bust that affair.
EDIT: Likewise with that change in mindset, whatever Rob has said does not really apply to you.
