L's and money go hand in hand. Never EVER forget that when dealing with one. EVER.
I already learned that the hard way this summer. Got taken by one that took advantage of me in my vulnerable state and I paid him a retainer (non-ref) didn't do any work and refuses to return my docs. My new L is going to get them for me. Thanks for the reminder though. Really. I must keep that in mind.
Do you really think that he will think of us? I think he's so deep in denial and lust that we don't cross his mind. I think he believes that he's so much better off and having fun. Probably will toast to a new future with OW.
I won't be spending NYE at home! I'll be with my new group of friends at a nice house on 7 acres with a bonfire going and BBQ. I'm feeling ready to start dating... nothing serious of course. Wow. Didn't think I'd get there.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10