I wouldnt waste my time if I wasnt. Read Michele's essay on WAWs, they sat back for years planning their escape.
I actually have read this article more than once. And it is true.
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Now, you need to make a plan. Get OUT and enjoy life. A cheating spouse is not worth depressing over.
This is what I am doing.
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Most of all, Make sure she has a good paying job before you divorce her. That is important for your short term future.
That won't be an issue. Her career path is set. She should be sitting pretty the rest of her career.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
We all have our rock bottom. Hell, you know all about my rock bottom. The good thing about rock bottom? No place to go but UP!
Hell, go get on a bull for New Year's Eve!
LOL. No bull for me tonight. But I am still waiting to see you come to Dallas and get on that bull. lol.
Yes, no place to go but up at this point. I am done being at the bottom. Life sucks at the bottom as we all know.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
W called my phone twice a bit ago. But didn't leave a message. Couldn't have been that important.
Not calling her back.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
If I ever come to Dallas I will! But then you have to take me to dinner (save up, I like expensive stuff Oh, and no white socks!!
I have a friend that is so prim and proper. When her sister got married they went to a bar that had a bull. My friend hardly ever drinks and she had a few glasses of wine. The somehow convinced her to get on the bull and they took a picture while she was riding it and her arms are all over the place. In the background is a HUGE photo of Johnny Cash giving the finger. It is one of the funniest photos I have ever seen in my life.
Ok - enough about this BS! Time to wrap up the crap portion of the day and enjoy New Year's!
DONT BE AN IDIOT. Never be nasty, mean or vindictive. Word gets around. You are already known as the most compassionate guy around. Now be known as the compassionate guy with strength, confidence and self-respect. They will be beating on your door for a piece of you.
Steve,
What I meant is I expect this to turn nasty from her. I will maintain my composure and dignity. But I fully expect her to go nasty at this point as I proceed with this.
It just won't surprise me to see her go that route. I am fully preparing for it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
If I ever come to Dallas I will! But then you have to take me to dinner (save up, I like expensive stuff Oh, and no white socks!!
I have a friend that is so prim and proper. When her sister got married they went to a bar that had a bull. My friend hardly ever drinks and she had a few glasses of wine. The somehow convinced her to get on the bull and they took a picture while she was riding it and her arms are all over the place. In the background is a HUGE photo of Johnny Cash giving the finger. It is one of the funniest photos I have ever seen in my life.
Ok - enough about this BS! Time to wrap up the crap portion of the day and enjoy New Year's!
I agree. Happy New Year everyone.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Let 2010 be a new beginning for you and all of us!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Let 2010 be a new beginning for you and all of us!
Ditto to that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Oh, and no white socks!!