He's going to see the kids for 2 hrs today. Glad he didn't bother trying to get them for tonight or part of the night. I know why of course, but I'm happy to be with my kids for this night and wish for a better year. I wouldn't want to spend it with anyone else.
DBD, just keep telling yourself that it's his loss. He will spend it with the OW (I assume that's what you mean) ... whoopy tey doo. A woman who looks for married men to play with. What a catch. What a great time they will have when the realisation (oh and he will think of it I have NO doubt) that his kids are at home with his W while he is there with her.
Lust is fleeting. A quick grope in the dark is not fulfilling. Spending time with friends and family are what life is about.
Love. Family. Friends.
How many of those, at this time, does she actually have?
With regards to filing. I agree with Newmama (again). Do what YOU want to do. Not what your L wants you to do. Remember if you file for D then your L can charge you more ... so of course they want you to do that. L's and money go hand in hand. Never EVER forget that when dealing with one. EVER.
Last edited by P17; 12/31/0905:26 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
