Thanks JWS123... that is some real good advice. I have told him that for now I will keep the door open yet he needs to finish everything before even trying to get me to trust. Last night I worte and told him that for now I would rather us keep the converstion and exchange only regarding the kids going... so this means no more daily emails on his part. I told him that he cant start pursing me only once all is done with and he is ready for us to go to counseling together... your message does give me hope and also see another side of trust. Thanks... Happy new year!
