Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Cutter, here's the thing: I live here with S now. SO I do everything now (which is fine). WH is still taking out the garbage or does yard work. That's it. So when he starts to do the small stuff like I mentioned, I think those are acts of service.

I also think he wants to do the garbage and yard work because it makes him feel good to help me. So I don't know if I should take it away from him. Could I be right?