Ahh the game. One you can control or one you react in. I have decided that I am in control. I decided this on Sept. 17th 2009 One plans for reactions. So I am prepaired.
The battle starts. Good luck. I know either way you will be okay.
My worry is the first test. That is the most important one and the one that will decide the tone for the rest of the battle. If you show any weakpoints she will exploit them (human nature) if you don't show any she will continue to probe your defences until she decides you have none and then either give up or launch an all out attack.
I think you have her beat before she starts, especially with her family on-side.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"