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[Ready2Change]

The Plan/Strategy is going to be to create CHAOS in her life. So far she has had you and your family to fall back on financially and for support. Now that her little business is falling apart this may not be as effective because she has already failed in it.

The plan is to cut EVERYTHING off. This is why you need an attorney to see what you can do without legal ramifications. You get your ducks in a row.

I'm not going to spell everything out for you in this post because you're still to eager a beaver. Your counter-attack, when it comes must hit her ALL AT ONCE. You're going to go for the jugular. This may sound vengeful, but it's not. You're going to do this for self-preservation - to protect yourself and your family. This is what a MAN does. He takes care of his own.

The side-effect of this will be to bring her to her knees. You are going to PUSH her into the OM's arms so he can deal with her crisis. You're going to shove reality down their throats in spades. Now OM has the additional tasks of dealing with supporting her financially and emotionally. When that happens usually his type flees. If this happens you leave her to stew in all the crap she has made. This will be difficult because you love her... but if you love her then you need to love her enough to let her grow up and face the consequences of what she has done. Only when she shows true remorse and starts changing for you do you blink. THAT IS THE LONG-TERM STRATEGY.