Ok, first off the sad news, my cat was found dead at 11pm last night. Never got to see her one last time, probably a good thing because it sounds like she was in pretty terrible condition. RIP Tinsel: 12/25/94 - 12/30/09

That said...............

This is going to be the BEST fuggen New Year's EVER!

So, (x)W and I went out to talk, eat and have a few drinks. I covered the new issue with with the doctor, she nearly broke down, I guess she thought it was all some sort of fish story, but when I showed her the letter from the doctors office she wouldn't let go of me. I'm sure it will all be 'fine'. Obviously there's something going on, but I will deal with it.

We also spoke about my displeasure for her 'condition' the other night. She apologized prefusely and said she hasn't done it since pretty much the time she left and her girlfirends wanted to as a 'celebration' to surviving their busy season at work. Says she didn't think it would have effected her bad, lesson learned and knows I will not deal with it.

Then the surprise of the night, her brother from down state ended up being in town so he joined us. It was pretty comfortable, and some good cathing up. Like old times.

So yeah we had a great time, and then my cousin had offered to watch the kids for tonight, so pour on the 180's. I've never been a last minute, fly by the seat of the pants type especially when it comes to anything that makes a financial impact, but, I told (x)W instead of going to 'our house' which neither of us thought was a good idea, I pitched for our favorite band that is playing right by my house for once instead of 45 minutes away, has an all you can eat, all you drink all night, and hotel. She must have thought I was all talk no action. Went home, booked the tickets and texted her, she got ubber excited. Then after some researching around found a hotel right next door to the venue and booked it and she went to the moon.

It's a new year, a new decade, new me, and a new start.

This is going to be fan-friggen-tastic.

Suffice it to say, I guess we'll find out really fast if being intimate with her is an issue or not. I highly doubt it. grin blush grin


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11