OK - so is the thinking I should put some software on the PC to monitor conversations/IM's, to confirm an EA? All's fair in love and war I guess. And this would qualify as both. You're probably right - I don't want to believe it but I have to know what I am fighting against.


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010