Bh, you are right--I am also angry that I allowed myself to be treated in such a way. But I am learning and growing, too.
As far as the name-calling, the thing is that your spouse is able to drill into your insecurities and that is what happened. Part of me believes what X said and that makes it difficult to overcome what he said.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
