So my question is... do I go ahead and inform her that if she exposes our kids to OM today that I will be filing for D as well as an immediate restraining order against him?
no. you have not learned in 1 year. you never say anything you just do. you now have reason enough to become the WAS. walk away without saying a word. it will leave her confused.
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Oh this is interesting. Christmas eve she was on the phone with him for 48 minutes until she got to my place at 2:45 am. Then right after leaving at 3:40 am she immediately gets on the phone with him again for another 47 minutes.
oh well. we were teling you in the past it was over. now you have proof. BIG F'ING DEAL. Kevin is all that matters, when will you begin to understand that?
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She has to really think I am an idiot.
she doesnt care kevin. She doesnt think of you as anything other than her ex-husband.
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This is going to get nasty from here on out. I might as well get ready for the ride.
DONT BE AN IDIOT. Never be nasty, mean or vindictive. Word gets around. You are already known as the most compassionate guy around. Now be known as the compassionate guy with strength, confidence and self-respect. They will be beating on your door for a piece of you.
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This is the email I an considering sending to W this morning.
NEVER PUT ANYTHING IN WRITING! you have sent enough I love you letters and I am done letters already. They mean nothing.
Make it interesting. you asked me a while back if i was serious. Yes I am Kevin. I wouldnt waste my time if I wasnt. Read Michele's essay on WAWs, they sat back for years planning their escape. Now, you need to make a plan. Get OUT and enjoy life. A cheating spouse is not worth depressing over.
Most of all, Make sure she has a good paying job before you divorce her. That is important for your short term future.
Do I need to tell you, or have you realized that you should be going to that birthday party tonight? Meet her girlfriends. Find out her real intentions!
