Good idea to figure out what she can use against you (alcohol, etc) and make sure you have a plan in place for that. For the alcoholism issue i would have my behind in AA every single day, get a sponsor and make it known that you are not passive about this. If there is a hint of an alcohol problem in court a judge wants to see you being proactive about it and not in denial. Not saying you are Kevin, but if you are an admitted alcoholic that is not working a recovery program it doesn't look good.
SO2, that is a real strong point. Time to get my butt back in there.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...