This is the email I an considering sending to W this morning.

"I call BS on OM being "just a friend". If you expose him to our girls today, I will file a restraining order against him blocking any contact from him to our girls. You really should have checked with the counselor first before trying to attempt to methodically work him into their lives at a point and time that is not good for them."

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...