I will treat him as a friend.....even though we have been married for over 25yrs.I think we will always be friends or at least try to for the sake of our family.....our grand daughter asked him yesterday out of the blue and of course I got on to her for asking him this question but she asked him if he still loved me a little and he said he did, because I was the mother to his children..... I have noticed, and my daughter as well, she is the main one who speaks to him most of the time and she says that he sounds like her dad more and more.... I called him on christmas day and it went right to voice mail, but then the phone had a call coming in from him..He was right on it to call me back... Snodderly I know you beleive in a higher power and I think something is changing and moving in his life.....i will let the man upstairs take a hold of as I have to date.....thanks for responding....Happy New Year and may you be blessed by all you do in here.......