clingtohope I thought i was hurt and upset when he left but I found out last night from my sisterinlaw that he is waiting till after the first to get the divorce. I was so hurt and confused , we have been intimate almost since he walked out nov.8,2009, we have a weekend planned jan.15,2010 . our 28th anniversary is jan.2,2010, and i dont know what to say or what to do anymore!I love my husband so very much, and dont know how I lost his love.I dont know how to respond to him knowing he is going ahead with the divorce, but I guess for me I will have to take it one day at a time.