I forwarded the decree on to Dan. The only reply he sent was that he didn't know how he could get me the lump sum within 30 days, he needed a payment plan or to cash out the 401 K....
Seems to me he had no trouble cashing out a piece of the 401K to put down on his house when he wanted to...
18 years and his only concern is the cash.....sad.
I guess I find it surprising that this suprises you....
I mean did you really expect Dan to give you some sort of emotional response??
which would you rather do?? have a payment plan or take it all in one lump sum BBJ??? I mean I hate to reduce it to that for you..
But that is what it is
it's about getting the business of the D done..
having a love life is going to be up to you and what you make of that...
expecting any type emotional response from Dan is wasting time in my opionion..you're not going to get what you are looking for from him
