I'm dealing with infedelity here. Continual boundary crossing and being told that the marriage was bad which was the only reason W was able to have the A.She doesn't deny it's wrong but at the same time isn't taking steps to correct it. She says all I do is remind her of it everyday. She doesn't want to admit that she leads herslf to it everyday and than when it gets there she wants to blame me.
I do everything I can to avoid her and she'll corner me. She even has tried to turn around the events of last nite to make me look responsible for the whole thing.
She brought home some boxes last nite so she is getting even closer to the door. I have asked her not to sleep in our bed and she still does. I don't get it. We have 4 bedrooms and 5 baths she doesn't have too be there yet she does. She call during day and ask not to fight anymore and as soon as she gets home becomes confrontational. Than blames me. Says here comes the old H. Hell I'm just trying to avoid it.
Middle of the fight last nite i asked her -" why r u out here? (workshop) - I mean really, why are you doing this? I came out here for peace you came out here to start this? Your getting what you want so go"
I really feel she is trying to call my bluff. Believe me I ain't bluffing. I just keep asking myself why I want to hold on now.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
