I will put the house on the market. If we get a good offer, then we will make a decision. It could be a good financial/lifestyle move.
Her line is lets sell the house, live seperately and work on our marriage. I may call her bluff. "Ok Wife. You want to sell the house and work on our marriage. Then lets do both now. I will sign the listing agreement if you will agree to intensive MC and IC starting now. Here is the date and time of our first appointment." My IC actually suggested this as a way to get her some IC. The new MC would meet with us seperately. Of course, I would interview the C. We need someone who would tell both of us that we are FOS on critical issues. We have not had that. This is just something I am kicking around.
