Now more than ever!

[soleil]

In response I got "You are controlling" "you are threatening me".

You already know that is complete and utter BS. You have every right to set up boundaries of self-respect.

I am not dictating what you can nd cant do. I am telling you this is not something I will have in my life. What you do is completely up to you."

Good. You were very clear with her.

Sorry to hear you're going through this, Wonderful.

Now the ball is in her court.