Hope and heartache

[motherof3]

Bitter angry - no. Strong, Confident yes. This is not about keeping score its about respecting yourself.

Hopefully some the ladies on here can comment.

IMO there is such a thing as being too nice of a guy, always trying to please, basically being a doormat.

I would be much more attracted to someone who is strong, confident, and able to stand up for themselves; someone with a backbone.

I am not interested in a man who is constantly walking on egg shells to make me happy or in fear they would make me unhappy. I would much rather be with someone who would put me in my place if the need be.

That kind of guy is not being an a$$, but rather a guy who demands respect.

I am not sure if I articulated this well, but I tried.