Rob,

I was just wondering how your situation is coming. It sounds great that your W is wanting to reconcile, but I can understand your issues of trust after the affair. There is a scripture in the bible. Forgive me I'm not that well veresed.

God asks a man to marry a prostitute. Things go well for some time and he loves her dearly. Eventually, she strays and becomes a prostitute again. She sinks to the lowest and ends up being a slave. The man ends up buying her back and forgives her despite her sin and indescretion. He loves her unconditionally and forgives her just as God forgives us. Think about that.


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.