Thanks GIMA, I do believe the WAW needs something that will cause her to get her attention off herself and OM (if there is an A). Of course, if there's an A, it will be more difficult.....but I think she still has to begin to miss her H/M and be interested in what he's doing in his life that doesn't include her. It takes longer if she's in an A, IMO, but I think the same principle applies.

I also like Dia's example of describing how a WAW's feels in the beginning. I wished I had bookmarked that post. I think it may have been on Orich's thread....but not sure. I remember her describing how the WAW feels like all the air has been sucked out of the room. Man, I do recall that feeling!

Thanks again.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!