What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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R2C,

Thanks for piping in. It felt good to do all this and I think I got a positive response from it. I hope others reading these threads will learn from it too. This works.

The "Art of Seduction" has been a good read. I find her to be the "daytime dreamer" type. She reads a lot and enjoys conversation and adventure. I am working on ways to angle in some subtle comments to get her thinking ......" Maybe he can fulfill my dreams after all?"

I usually don't drink and I am reserved. I now am more outgoing, drink occasionally and I'm less of a tightwad and more free with my money. Yeah, I have changed a lot. Recently, I gave one of the home repairmen a $60.00 cash tip because he did a great job and I felt he undercharged us. I did this in another room and thought she didn't see it but she noticed.

I'm going out with friends tomorrow night. I asked W if she wanted to come. She said "No, she didn't feel like comedy" I am going out but I will be back to bring in the New Year with the kids.

Thanks again for your time and input.