Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Oh and I never bossed WH around or anything. He did used to wait too long before telling me if he had an issue with something. I never saw him as a pushover. But he did do so much that he forgot to leave room for me to do something.

I resented all the giving! I mean he could have toned it down a notch and he could have not been so perfect at it all..."perfect" is very intimidating.

I love taking care of S because S needs me and he "lets" me (LOL). So all you givers out there...if you leave some things for the takers (but tell them), you will turn the takers into givers ot ay least they would give more than before!