Just curious. I realized some time ago that my W was my emotional center. If she was happy so was I. Reverse was the same. Also noticed the emotional high that would come after we talked. This has probably delayed my recovery significantly. My mind starts running in NG mode. Well if I'm nice to her she should want to come back. Hasn't worked for me. Nothing has changed and she gets to cake eat at my expense.


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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09