Did you start making dinner? Now that I am D with 50/50 it is my responsibility to make dinner for the kids. I highly recommend start taking on that responsibility while you are still M.
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I had a rough day today behind the ether screen, very fat and sick people
Sorry to hear that.
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so I opened a beer and sat down on the couch and watched the funny video show.
Normal behavior or 180?
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When my W came up from her bike ride she was pleasant. She asked me if I had eaten anything and if I needed anything from the store. She was chipper and happy. I tried to stay low key and just answered questions when I was spoken to and I listened as she told me about her day.
Sounds good.
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She went to the store and picked up a few things which took over an hour
Why so long? Do you shop for food also?
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while I made the kids dinner.
Glad to hear that.
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She left her phone at home. She wants me to believe so much that she isn’t having an affair. Why? Because, instead, she wants to believe the marriage problems are completely my fault. 100%? Well maybe 80%. She is walking away because she can’t stand being with me and that’s it. Who is the one trying to absolve their issues?
Great perception.
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Anyway, when she returned from the store, she was talking more than usual and still happy and upbeat. I stayed neutral. She asked me when the health club opened in the morning....Huh? She knows that. I told her 5:30. I can’t figure her out.
It is not important to figure her out. It is important to change the way you interact with her. It is important to understand her POV when she is speaking. That does not mean it is right or wrong, good or bad, it is just her point of view.
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I’m looking forward to going out with some friends tomorrow night and hitting the comedy club. It should be good.
Have a good time!
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It looks like she bought some non alcoholic champagne for the kids while she stays in.
Are you doing anything with the kids?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
