[quote] Never let someone tell you what you think, feel or believe. Next time she does it tell her, "I don't recall ever telling you I don't want you and that I want this house. Those are your thoughts if you want to know what I am thinking then ask."
I love this!! My wife is always trying to mind-read and project my thoughts. She says "this is what you are thinking subconsciously"...... She needs to work for the unsolved mysteries department for the Police.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
[quote=Tridoc]
Come on man. We aren't all bad. In fact, most of us are ethical, honorable people. It's just that the bottom feeders get all the press.
I'm a trial attorney (don't worry Doc, I don't sue doctors, but have defended them in the past), but not a D L. So, at the appropriate time, you bet your a$$ I'm talking to one to make sure I'm covered.
Sorry GIMA, I haven't been sued but I can't say I like the profession that much. Granted, there are those who are noble;-)
Originally Posted By: Greek
[quote=Wonderful!] Do you want to sell your home? If not, then don't. If it's a bad idea/bad market/bad financial move...then don't do it.
Really, she wants to simplify? Simple is she rents an efficiency and takes some time apart from you to think things over. Simple is not sell the house, both of us move, divide the stuff and then possibly put it together again later.
Don't fall for this. Greek
Great answer! You shouldn't make the decision to sell the house in a bad market. You should keep the house and she can move out if she feels that strongly about it. Stick to what is best for you, don't try to appease her. She just wants to get rid of the house so she can sock it too you with divorce papers once you sign off on the sale. Don't fall for it! If she wanted to work on the relationship, she would be doing it now.
Hang in there bud.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
