You should wait as long as you have the strength and patience. One of the DB rules is to give them time and space. I'm struggling with the same questions. How long do you wait if there's no indication of any kind of change?
I've seen several posters say one morning they just woke up and were at peace with their decisions -- either to keep waiting or to end it.
I'm no where near that either. I'll latch on to a thought for a while and then a "yeah but" will creep in.
It's too bad you are struggling. You sounded so good a week ago.
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