IPS, let me get this straight...

This has been your life in 2009:

1. DV charge by SD18 - pokey time
2. Red flags of cheating. Sprained wife's arm - more pokey time
3. PPO, No contact ordered until April 2010
4. SD falsely accuses you of molestation
5. Wife files for D after your name is cleared
6. Wife is not in the marital home and possibly living with another man
7. Your home is infested by low-life cockroaches and a drug dealer.

Ummmmmmm.... Gno is scratching his noggin here....

You say:
Originally Posted By: Inpainstill
you see i was seeing her before her first husband past
Originally Posted By: Inpainstill
she is my soulmate and my friend

So, if I understand this correctly, the woman you married was carrying on an EA with you until her H died unexpectedly. Therefore you were the OM and you were knowingly dating a cheater.

You suspected she was cheating on you. When you revealed your suspicions she, knowing your past anger issues, provoked you into acting out against her. Called the cops and had you locked up. Looks to me like she wanted you out of the picture and not making waves while she pursued her new OM. With things going well with him she then files for D.

This whole thing stinks from top to bottom. These people are genetic waste. They are not even your blood. Sorry man.. I've got a friend who had a TRO filed against him because of nosey neighbors. His wife loved him and they found a way to discreetly be together and screw the court order... what does that tell you?

Originally Posted By: Inpainstill
if some can give me advice please do i want to save my family and my marriage thank you.

If you want advice... the best advice would be to save yourself.

I second Steve McQueen's motion... and hope I don't get banned for it.



Last edited by Gnosis; 12/31/09 04:18 AM.