What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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I get the idea ladies.... Thanks...... Hard to get it is.

I appreciate all the feedback today. I can say, it made me feel very good. It's great to have a support group, even if it is in cyberspace, cheering me on.

Someone asked if my kids swim. I have one daughter who swam for 5 years and she just quit a month ago. She felt it was taking time away from her studies in school. My other daughter is a great gymnast who trains 5 hours a day and competes internationally. My son.... Well, he hasn't found his sport yet. We are working on it, and it isn't Lego Indiana Jones on the Wii.

So on with the days update..... Give me your thoughts.

I worked late today and when I came home my kids were on the computer and playing video games and my W was in the basement on the exercise bike. They hadn’t had dinner.

I had a rough day today behind the ether screen, very fat and sick people, so I opened a beer and sat down on the couch and watched the funny video show. I got a few good laughs in. When my W came up from her bike ride she was pleasant. She asked me if I had eaten anything and if I needed anything from the store. She was chipper and happy. I tried to stay low key and just answered questions when I was spoken to and I listened as she told me about her day.

Kinda weird behavior considering the discussion yesterday. She went to the store and picked up a few things which took over an hour, while I made the kids dinner. She left her phone at home. She wants me to believe so much that she isn’t having an affair. Why? Because, instead, she wants to believe the marriage problems are completely my fault. 100%? Well maybe 80%. She is walking away because she can’t stand being with me and that’s it. Who is the one trying to absolve their issues?

Anyway, when she returned from the store, she was talking more than usual and still happy and upbeat. I stayed neutral. She asked me when the health club opened in the morning....Huh? She knows that. I told her 5:30.

I can’t figure her out.

I am leaving the Porsche site and the e Harmony site on on my computer history. I know she will check it ...... Just another way of messing with her mind.

I’m looking forward to going out with some friends tomorrow night and hitting the comedy club. It should be good. It looks like she bought some non alcoholic champagne for the kids while she stays in.