Well, I think that is true if I can do things differently now than I always have. I have always worked, been a working wife/mom. Some of H's complaints are that my job would leave me so tired in the evenings (which is true, it is a very demanding job) that I became a "shell" and most of what I had left over went to kids. These are legitimate complaints. I plan to work on pacing myself with work and make H a priority.
