Sandi's Place

[ClingingToHope]

Yes. It is confusing. I had decided after hearing from you and Mishka that moving home would hurt more than help, but then several people jump in telling me I'm weak and pushing me to move back and look at DDog and look at this.

There seems to be a huge divide in advice given by women and men.

I have to remember these are all just opinions and a lot of them are way different than the DB rules.

Sometimes I spend too much time on the boards and forget there are no experts.

My lawyer is calling me on Monday to talk about whether having moved out will hurt my chances for joint physical custody. If not, then I'm staying put and staying the course.

I've invested a lot of time in building a life at this new place where the girls are comfortable and happy. My W actually said back in September she was jealous of me. It's laid out much nicer than our house, which is old, creaky and difficult to maintain.