well she did end up calling!! WOW there is a new one for her.
I hit talk and i gave the phone to D8(dont want them to see the name mommy comes up as on my phone.) they talked for a little bit, then D7 talked to her for a short bit as well and then W asked if S3 wanted to talk but D8 told her he was sleeping so W asked if daddy wanted to talk. I said not right now as I was looking for a card in my room. (I guess D8 told W no daddy doesnt want to talk to you) so IDK if that was good or not but I'm guessing she prob takes it as Im still trying NC who knows though like everyone on here says I would just be guessing at this point