feel like giving up - talk to me!

[Super Girl]

(((Luv)))

[motherof3]

Luv,

I am praying for you girl.

Mo3

[Steve McQueen]

Monday night at our dinner conversation at a restaurant H told me he "didn't know if he wanted to be married" and an "it's me not you" speech. It took every ounce in me not to cry at the table. He said, "maybe we should separate."

been there and I will tell you luvless you can lay down and watch it die or you can put up the fight of your life and learn more about yourself, love, and relationships than you ever taught possible.

little do you know this CAN BE where it all becomes interesting.

[Butterfly1]

I've been lurking - I have an emotionally abusive H too. My H also wanted the separation (that we now have). It adds injury to insult to be the one who is being dumped after putting up with so much pain to try to keep the family together.

Frankly, you go girl. I support the "I'm done" attitude. Hurting us and our kids is no longer an option. Take your power and we'll help you keep it up. You protect yourself and your kids, you deserve so much better. Easy to say, harder to do. I'm right there with ya.

[luvless]

Monday night at our dinner conversation at a restaurant H told me he "didn't know if he wanted to be married" and an "it's me not you" speech. It took every ounce in me not to cry at the table. He said, "maybe we should separate."

been there and I will tell you luvless you can lay down and watch it die or you can put up the fight of your life and learn more about yourself, love, and relationships than you ever taught possible.

little do you know this CAN BE where it all becomes interesting.

What do you mean Steve? Tell me....

[soleil]

I think Steve means that you can either wallow in the pain you're feeling or face this head on.

As much as you want to cry great big tears in front of your H, do not do this, Luv. Let him go without a fight, so to speak.
You will feel a million times better for acting this way and of course, you will be the pillar of strength for your children.

Has he made plans to move out? You should not move out, Luv. It's his decision to leave so he can do that.

Praying for you and your sitch, Luv. Big big hugs!

Doing anything for the new year?

[luvless]

Nope - he hasn't said anything. I am trying my hardest not to cry. I definately need those prayers.

I won't leave I will let the coward walk out on his own. He will want me to throw him out so he can blame me - once again.

I feel awful this morning. I don't know what will happen tonight.

I'm so tired of this already.

[Gnosis]

I feel awful this morning. I don't know what will happen tonight.

I thought we agreed that you had plans...?

Why aren't you busy sprucing yourself up for that party?

[luvless]

I know G - I really don't know about going out partying. I may spend time with my kids tonight - do something with them. I don't know yet.

smack me G

[Gnosis]

SMACK!!!!!