Originally Posted By: robx
to put a ribbon on this,
during that discussion when she comes home tonight,
a few text msg's from a girl you just "met" might just send the msg across to her that you're moving on.

Seriously, I know it was a hard night, I'm glad you weather your "storm" as well as you did.

Stick to your guns, if she can't be with you by her own choice, you don't want her at all.

Tell her to be with the OM, you don't want her anymore.
Push her away, time for you to find someone new, this routine is old & boring with her.


Well, OB...if you DON'T want a D, then don't anything that will earn one for you...like finding someone new at this time.

This is where Robx and I part ways. If Coach had taken advice like this while we were separated, can't say we would have reconciled. NO ONE should date while married - WAW or LBS.

Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.