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I made the call. I told W calmly that I don't think it is in the best interest of the kids to be getting introduced to OM tomorrow. W said he is just a friend and nothing more. I said ok. I said the kids had mentioned that he was going to be there. She said she told me that a week ago. I said no, you told me that he was coming into town and that you are your lady friends were going to be having dinner with him. You didn't say anything about OM joining you and the kids for bowling. She said yes she did.

The bottom line is she didn't. I would have had a problem with that right off the bat. I found out from my kids that he was going to be there. Neither time when it came up with her did she once say he was going bowling with her and the kids.

That being said, again she claims strictly friendship. This is where the believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see applies. If he is just a friend, why was her house done up spotless today with maids and all. Why was she dressed up so nice? And if he is just a friend, why do the phone records for months now show the 2 talking every day, first thing in the morning before work, through out the day and late at night? This is more than a friend. Why did she make the effort to make him a home made blanket? But she can deny it all she wants. And there is nothing I can do about it. But I spoke my peace.

If he really is truly only a friend, then I may have botched up any progress that was being made. But I don't for a second think he is just a friend. I have fallen for that one before. You don't talk to a friend of the opposite sex day in and day out morning, afternoon and evening on the phone if it is just a friend. And why is a male "friend" staying with her?

I still don't really agree with it. But whatever. I was calm on the phone and it was a short phone call.

If he was only a friend, I am sure it will come back to haunt me. If he wasn't a friend, it won't have mattered.

Kevin