I have gone in protective mode. I really cannot worry about saving my H anymore. It's time to save my kids and GAL. I am done! I am done putting him before all of us while we are all hurting. No more. I am going to go on with my life knowing my marriage is probably over but my life with my kids is NOT. I will suck it up for them. I've done it before.
Been lurking and praying, Mama Bear. Do what you have to do for them - and you. You will get stronger and peace will come. ((())))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac