Hey man, sorry for the sitch.....Reading yours made me think alot about mine......All classic, except I don't think mine was ever quite as nasty....Not sure what to make of that.....It is all about them though, and don't forget that....
My divorce has been final for over a year and mine is just now beginning to come back to earth....Where it goes from here is anyone's guess, but we are talking some.....
One thing I would caution you about, My ex-sil was really good to me too.....We talked about alot of stuff.....However, blood is thicker than water and some things came back to bite me in the butt.....Just be careful