Okay.......I'm open to suggestions. What would you add, or do differently if there is an A involved?
I wouldn't do anything different to be honest. But I simply don't think this works with the same amount of 'magic' when there is an A.
When there is an A in the works, the WAS couldn't care less, generally, about the LBS. They are fixated by the OP and the passion, sex, love and wonder of it all. If you drop the rope they'll actually be pretty damn glad you did so they can get away with OP. I don't think much of the 'looking back at you' when you drop the rope actually occurs when there is an A.
So yes, drop the rope. But I think it's because mentally you have to. Just don't expect the same results when there is an A involved.
At least, that is my experience and my 2p worth.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
