A lot to soak in - but I hear you all. I have been thinking that in our financial situation that I will not be able to move out anyway - and I've got to get my 23 yr old son outr and on his own as well - he and my wife are toxic to each other. So - at least until the sale of our house - I expect at the moment to stay here. Once we sell and we really have to at this point given our finances - unless there is a change within her we will be getting two apartments. But that could be awhile from now - we have had house on market for month and a half and only 1 buyer come to look. I am already trying to follow the Don't list and I am committed to this marriage as long as it takes - so I'm in....... back later on if I can get on line.......
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010