My wife is still pushing to sell the house. She promises that once we sell and seperate she will be in a position to work on our relationship. I think this is BS. I think she just wants to sell the house and is trying to manipulate and placate me with the rest. I mean, why would she need to wait till then to work on our issues. Over and over again, I hear, "I just want to simplify. I want to seperate."
Anyway, I told her I would not make a decision till January. I am pondering signing the listing agreement today to disrupt things abit. The risk is of course that she will think I caved into her presure. I also view this as dropping the rope. The house is our most substantial joint asset. She has said several times, you don't want me, you want this house, etc. Any creative solutions.
Do you want to sell your home? If not, then don't. If it's a bad idea/bad market/bad financial move...then don't do it.
Really, she wants to simplify? Simple is she rents an efficiency and takes some time apart from you to think things over. Simple is not sell the house, both of us move, divide the stuff and then possibly put it together again later.
Don't fall for this. Greek
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