Actually, I am not that surprised. Cash is tangible, it is safe.
Emotions are a whole different story. He can't talk to you about it, for fear of kicking himself in the a$$ for letting it get this far.
It's all about pride. Some people would rather hold on to their pride, thinking they are saving face, rather than just admit they are flawed and they screwed up.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
