The adventure chronicles

[Steve McQueen]

I doubt that PDT, Rob, or Steve would urge you to act like a sarcastic, petulant teenager.

No, but Steve likes stories.

I remember this girl I dated for awhile and when things were winding down, gave me the "I'll call you later" line. But never did. I still think about her from time to time and wonder what I did wrong to lose that one. Then there was the girl who in breaking up with me swore me up and down, called my house constantly, basically was harrassing and belligerent, I dont even recall her name.

I think John knows the answers to his questions. If we read back through his posts there was a period when his "tone" changed. If he gets back to that mentality and stays there there he will find his long term happiness. He doesnt have to say a thing.

[AFWAW]

Oldtimer,
Very good points. Thank you for taking the time to show them to me.

Well, a new twist has occured. WAW called earlier and stated that she would not go to counseling as things she had to tell them would be reported to her commander as what she did was in direct violation of the UCMJ.

I asked her why she thought that as my couselor told me that nothing was reported to the base and that unless there was a crime like murder, rape, etc there was no report. She said she wasn't willing to take that chance and that she wanted the name of our mortgage company so she could have her name taken off of it. She said that since she couldn't meet her end of the deal that she assumed that it was over.

Hmmmmmm, so what now?

[Steve McQueen]

refriend the girl on facebook and she will call to ask you why you did that!

[dburt]

She's not willing to take a chance?

Burt

[Gnosis]

Smack me silly oldtimer!!!!

I'm just a childish l'il brat who dunno nuffing....

[AFWAW]

I have considered that but as I stated before, this woman and I have only communicated 3 or 4 times since Sept. She has not contacted me since I removed her from FB so I think it's safe to say that she is not interested in my drama. If memory serves, Gucci told me something to the effect of a woman that doesn't want to be pursued isn't worth my time and there are plenty of other women out there.

[Gnosis]

And if memory serves me correctly... when your WhyF sensed other fish in the pond she started doing cartwheels.

[AFWAW]

A chance on counseling? I assume not at this point. I still think she needs to go to counseling. At the very least she could work on her anger issues and need to control everything. I'm not going to overreact to this as it won't do any good. I need some time to think about how to approach this logically so it can happen. Any thoughts?

[AFWAW]

She did. It was scary too.

[Gnosis]

And therein lies the only possible solution... for her to want to change.