Coach--I have never said or even thought anything like that. The last time, hell, everytime she has ever said anything about my motiviations I have said something along the lines suggested. It is in my nature that when something is said that is not true, I speak up. She is trying to convince herself that I don't want her, That I want material things. She has a history of ascribing these negative motivations to me in justification to end our marriage. Usually, I have found, when she accuses me of something its based in her insecurity not my reality.