When you make your pro & con list, maybe you need to have two more collums that have "love" & "fear".
Okay, I'll stop nagging. This is why I have almost stop posting to women b/c I get too over-bearing. I can't stand to see a W in the place you feel yourself.
I just want to support and encourage you....not brow-beat.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
