What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Thanks Robx for all your input. It helps a lot. I'm at work on my iPhone so my responses are short, but I will be sure to keep documenting my updates.

I'm trying to figure the rationale behind this approach. You break off, don't persue, and move on with your life. The WAS response is to reality, fear, it gives them a sence what divorce is really like before the fact? Just trying to figure it out. I like to have an idea of what I am trying to achieve.

I feel so much more confident and I do feel the momentum has changed in my favor.